How To Congratulate For A New Baby Am I Overeacting And Been Inconsiderate With Hubby? Should I Be Ok With Ex's Contacting Him?

Am I overeacting and been inconsiderate with hubby? Should I be ok with ex's contacting him? - how to congratulate for a new baby

We have been married for one year and from one years. We have a child between the ages of 1 month. I love my husband and I have no doubt he loves me. I do not always fool me either. And I know that the past should always stay in the past and now my husband, but her past continues to the present form of individual needs. The whole time we were together as you go I've had with an ex-wife in the picture a lot and told him not to call him even more. Madam, I was married and had 4kids and was ready to go live with him before we were together. (But never suspected anything with him) and wanted to talk to him when we were together. But he also said, and no longer call and e-mail. And now, a former g / f of new high school has left a message on MySpacewelcomed a new baby and marriage.And said he was worried about him because he was a bad dream of him and wondered how he was doing. And she had tried to keep it for a while. He said he had not spoken for years. But the former g / f wants to stay in contact with him wants his number, and e-mail, and she wants me well with cuz he just wants to be friends are. He hopes to meet with me and his son at the age of one day. Sincerely, I dont care about one of the first session, even if you just want to be friends. He did not answer back, and do not know whether or not, but he has his list of friends. I do not know how to handle it when I leave and say whether you stay in the former. I do not know if you talk to her cuz phoneimplemented in Korea. But you know, if you respond by e-mail. I love him and want to be happy, but I am still having trouble with an ex or two. Has anyone in this situation? I am overeacting? And this has nothing to do with the reality of jealousy, but for me. I do not think I would like to speak with one of my ex too?